Read and Repeat.

YOU DON'T DESERVE PIECES OF SOMEONE

YOU DESERVE SOMEONE WHO IS WHOLE

YOU DESERVE TO BE A PRIORITY 

AND NOT AN OBLIGATION

YOU DESERVE TO FEEL INTERESTING, FUNNY, AND SEXY

YOU DESERVE SOMEONE WHO IS READY AND WILLING 

TO GIVE YOU ALL THESE THINGS  WITHOUT ANY SECOND THOUGHTS

"Zoom" by The Commodores

"Well I've shared so many pains

and I've played so many games, 

but everyone finds the right way somehow...somewhere...someday"

Oldie but goodie! 

I heard this song for the first time yesterday on the radio even though it's been sampled from Fergie to E40! But this original song is not only amazingly produced but the message or the words are very powerful.  This song pretty much takes the words right out of my mouth on how I feel about my life as of now.

My Post Break-Up/Single Living Remedy Books Recommendations

Yah, reading about vampires or zombies are cool in all but for some reason I'm more attracted to self help books.  I'm attracted to them especially when I've gotten out of some crappy relationship or whenever I'm feeling low about myself.  These are my favorite pick me up books by far.

Why Men Love Bitches

By Sherry Argov

Single or not this book should be considered a woman's second bible.

The Science Of Single

By Rachel Machacek

 If you thought your love life is complicated, then read this book. This book just makes me

laugh. The author has a great sense of humor and is a good sport in the dating world.

Be Honest...You're Not That Into Him Either

 By Ian Kerner, Ph. D.

 An amazing book written by not only a sex therapist but a man sex therapist.  By far one

of my favorite books about dating.  I love his response to the ever so famous "He Just Not That Into You," and gives the power back to the Women.

Meeting Your Half Orange

By Amy Spencer

 Something drawn me to this book. I think it's when I've felt like I had hit an all time low about finding a good match, the book sort of found me.  It's very powerful and very positive. This book 

is mostly recommended for someone who is absolutely and positively ready for a relationship. I also think this book would be great even if you are already in a committed relationship as well.
I let a friend borrow this, I need it back!!

Anyway...so what do all these books have in common???

They all come to one conclusion...

LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF <3 <3!!!

This guy is cool. Check him out.

"If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change..."

That's Dr. Wayne Dyer. He writes dope self help books. I've read Inspiration and currently reading Wishes Fulfilled. He's good. That quote above pretty much started a catalyst of happiness in my life.

The Pre Lude. Thoughts expressed on March 25th 2012

"You just need to reinvent yourself..." - Darlene Pacheco (one of my BFFs)



When I see something fading it only makes me want to cling on harder.  When I should just let it go because it's a battle that's already over but sometimes I like to kick dead horses just for fun. I guess I just want to prove myself wrong but I'm always right, it wasn't worth it. (Ego vs. Higher Self)

I just hate that I'm not worth the fight, worth the uncertainty. Why am I not worth a fucking chance? Is it because I've haven't taken a chance on myself? Am I insane? I keep writing about the same shit over and over. Nothing really changed. Is it because I'm looking for someone to change me? I guess I need to change myself. It's hard! I'm one stubborn hopeless romantic damn it. I don't want to have fear or be jaded. But I don't want to be made a fool. So what the fuck is the answer?

Welcome. I'm Happy you Came.

So what the heck is this? Well it's pretty much all in the name. But ultimately I just want to feel good and I hope this blog will help me and you as well Reader. What's should you expect? Basically this blog with contain personal realizations, frustrations and affirmations that I've written myself. Also I want to share my favorite songs, images, or other things that make me happy. And Reader if you're blue, I hope this makes you yellow. Enjoy.