"I need to look at things for what they are and not what I wished they should be. But in the end find peace with it."
As you know Reader I am having problems with letting go, so this will be one of many affirmations I am going to write myself throughout this blog to help me. I've figured out that holding on to things that only serve a purpose of keeping me in stuck in a rut has become a mental pattern. I can't help that I have a romantic imagination and it's actually wonderful to have fantasies. However, I think when I don't get those fantasies fulfilled I completely shutdown. First I will hate the person for letting me down then I attack myself for having those types of ideas in the first place. I need to remember that letting go and forgiveness come hand in hand. I need to remember to not only let go of the situation but forgive the perpetrator and finally forgive myself. Then eventually my overwhelming feeling of guilt and angry will lessen because I will have perfected the way of looking at things, both differently and realistically.
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